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	<title>Create a Thriving Business &#187; Caterina Rando</title>
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		<title>Got Style?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 00:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[                                                      As entrepreneurs, I know we all look for the tips and tricks of the industry experts to help polish our professional image, boost our confidence and increase our poise in the business arena. Join us for a 6-week free virtual book launch tele-summit starting February 28th and get insights from leading industry style [...]]]></description>
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<p> As entrepreneurs, I know we all look for the tips and tricks of the industry experts to help polish our professional image, boost our confidence and increase our poise in the business arena. Join us for a 6-week free virtual book launch tele-summit starting February 28th and get insights from leading industry style experts! <a href="http://www.mystylemywaytelesummit.com" target="_blank">Click here</a> for more information and to register now.</p>
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		<title>Are You Daring?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2011 16:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to Francine Allaire, who interviewed me for her Daring Women Circle. We had a very interesting discussion on creating influence to grow your business. You can listen here. After the call, I was inspired to look at where I can be even more daring in my life and with my clients. After the interview [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/TheDaring.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-610" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="TheDaring" src="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/TheDaring-150x150.jpg" alt="The Daring" width="84" height="84" /></a>Thanks to Francine Allaire, who interviewed me for her Daring Women Circle. We had a very interesting discussion on creating influence to grow your business. You can listen <a href="http://attendthisevent.com/Modern/?eventid=17175531" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>After the call, I was inspired to look at where I can be even more daring in my life and with my clients. After the interview I went to my weekly belly dancing class and asked my belly dancing teacher to come to my next seminar and teach everyone to do a little belly dancing. She agreed. You can join us&#8211;<a href="http://www.bizbreakthrough.com" target="_blank">click here</a> for more info.</p>
<p>Where can you be more daring in your business and your life? Let me know.</p>
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		<title>While Stranded at Sea&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 16:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may have heard that I was on the Carnival Splendor cruise ship that was stranded at sea last November.  While four days with no power was no vacation, I was relieved and thrilled to have my Star Lee magazine with me. I read it cover to cover. It was filled with great stories, business building ideas [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/StarLee-Header-750x2033.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-537" title="StarLee-Header-750x203" src="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/StarLee-Header-750x2033.jpg" alt="Starlee Magazine" width="140" height="37" /></a>You may have heard that I was on the Carnival Splendor cruise ship that was stranded at sea last November. </p>
<p>While four days with no power was no vacation, I was relieved and thrilled to have my Star Lee magazine with me. I read it cover to cover. It was filled with great stories, business building ideas and inspiration. I got myself a subscription right away.</p>
<p>Since I have been raving about this awesome new publication for women in business, the publisher has extended to my community an irresistible offer.  The regular cover price is $222/year. For you, when you use coupon code <strong>CATVIP11, </strong>it is only an amazing $19.99 for an annual subscription. </p>
<p><strong>Click here to learn more <a title="Starlee Magazine" href="http://www.starleemagazine.com/caterina" target="_blank">http://www.starleemagazine.com/caterina</a>  </strong></p>
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		<title>Women in Business Radio- The Past Revealed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 22:34:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to Michele Price of Women in Business Radio who interviewed me today about how I got going in my business. We covered a lot. Listen for some great ideas and some inspiration. Click here to listen now. Women in Business Radio is the communication hub for women in business all across the world for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/WIBRadio_final_logo-250x250px1.jpg" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-521" title="WIBRadio_final_logo-250x250px" src="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/WIBRadio_final_logo-250x250px1-150x150.jpg" alt="Women in Business" width="105" height="105" /></a>Thanks to Michele Price of <strong>Women in Business Radio</strong> who interviewed me today about how I got going in my business. We covered a lot. Listen for some great ideas and some inspiration. <a title="Michelle interviews Caterina" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/womeninbusinessradio/2011/01/24/thrive-publishing-caterina-rando-women-in-business-radio" target="_blank">Click here </a>to listen now.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Women in Business Radio</strong> is the communication hub for women in business all across the world for the forgotten women in business today. Tune is Every Monday at 2pm ET 1pm CT 12pm MT 11am PT. <a title="Women in Business Radio" href="http://womeninbusinessradio.com/thrive-books-caterina-rando-women-in-business-radio/" target="_blank">Click here</a> to learn more. </span></p>
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		<title>Making 2011 the year that makes a huge difference in your business</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 23:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My favorite quote is from American folksinger Joan Baez: “Action is the antidote to despair.” If 2010 was less then stellar for your business, I have an important question for you: Have you made a decision to—no kidding—grow your business in 2011? If you answered yes, let me first congratulate you. A decision is a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>My favorite quote is from American folksinger Joan Baez: “Action is the antidote to despair.” If 2010 was less then stellar for your business, I have an important question for you: Have you made a decision to—no kidding—grow your business in 2011?</em></p>
<p><em>If you answered yes, let me first congratulate you. A decision is a goal that has been made. Next, let me ask you what clear action steps are you  taking right now to get your goal?</em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>I am sure you have heard the old adage attributed to Albert Einstein: Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Now is the time to take new, innovative, and consistent action in order to attract new leads, clients and revenue.</em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>If you are like many small business owners, you are looking to upgrade your sales and marketing efforts, but you are not sure what to do or how to start. Often other more immediate things get in the way and your good intentions never come to fruition. </em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>I am sure you have lots of great reasons for not getting to your sales and marketing, including your social media activities. The truth is, however, without consistent action over time, whatever you do in any of these areas will not grow your business in any significant way. </em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>I understand. I know it can be frustrating. </em></p>
<p><em>That is why I am determined to do everything I can to provide affordable and practical business development programs that will quickly and easily grow your business, including an easy solution that will provide a strong boost for your business and give you a solid foundation from which to grow and flourish. </em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>To find out more, just <a href="http://www.attractclientswithease.com/bbintensive.htm" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #ce1717;">go here</span></strong></a>. This is a brand new offering that I have designed with two goals in mind: quick results and making the most of your valuable time. This four week program starts this Monday, so you need to move quickly.</em></p>
<p><em><strong>P.S. </strong>There is a bonus at the bottom of the page that is invaluable and worth three times the cost of the program—if you register in the next two days. Visit </em><span style="color: #ce1717;"><strong><a href="http://www.attractclientswithease.com/bbintensive.htm" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ce1717;"><em>http://www.attractclientswithease.com/bbintensive.htm</em></span></a></strong></span><em> now.</em><em></em></p>
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		<title>Social Media Conference Report and Business Boost</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 03:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I did an interview this morning on &#8220;How to be an Expert and Build your Business&#8221; and I also shared a few insights from the Social Media Marketing Conference I attended in Las Vegas yesterday. This session is info packed. Listen, learn and then get into action. Click here to listen now: http://bit.ly/gkHeMW]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/BlogTalkRadio.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-499" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="BlogTalkRadio" src="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/BlogTalkRadio-150x150.jpg" alt="Blog Talk Radio" width="150" height="150" /></a>I did an interview this morning on &#8220;<strong>How to be an Expert and Build your Business</strong>&#8221; and I also shared a few insights from the Social Media Marketing Conference I attended in Las Vegas yesterday. This session is info packed. Listen, learn and then get into action. Click here to listen now: <a href="http://bit.ly/gkHeMW" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">http://bit.ly/gkHeMW</span></strong></a></p>
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		<title>Attract Sponsors for More Visibility and Revenue</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 22:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a good candidate for enticing a sponsor who will pay you to introduce its products or services to your clients and others? I have had some great sponsors over the years, including Staples® and Jones New York®. Sponsors can be lucrative sources of income, or at least offset some of your business costs. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you a good candidate for enticing a sponsor who will pay you to introduce its products or services to your clients and others? I have had some great sponsors over the years, including Staples® and Jones New York®. Sponsors can be lucrative sources of income, or at least offset some of your business costs.</p>
<p>There are three different kinds of sponsorship. You could have one or more sponsor in each of the three categories:</p>
<ul>
<li>Traditional—a corporate sponsor writes you a check for something like a speech or being promoted at an event.</li>
<li>Media sponsor—you give a workshop or a speech, and the local newspaper sponsors you and promotes the event, you promote them in your publicity and at the event. No money is exchanged.</li>
<li>In-kind sponsor—they give you something but not always a check. Let’s say you do a workshop at a local bank; the bank promotes the event, gives you a free venue for your workshop and provides refreshments or some staff support. Their efforts save you money and they benefit from the exposure and you bringing new people to their branch.</li>
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<p>Who are natural sponsors for you? Take some time to brainstorm ideas by identifying your ideal client, because you want a sponsor<strong> </strong>your clients will be interested in and one that is consistent with your brand.</p>
<p>Look for local sponsors with whom you already have a good relationship. Propose an in-kind sponsorship and do everything you can to make it successful. Invite potential sponsors to see you speak. Pay for their lunch and their transportation.</p>
<p>After you prove yourself and do a great job, you can ask for money for the next event. You can also document the results, go to a larger company and use this success to propose a paying sponsorship and generate revenue for your company.</p>
<p>Start now to research local sponsorship opportunities and begin to establish yourself as a valuable entity with which companies want to be associated.</p>
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		<title>HAPPY NEW YEAR</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2010 22:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every year I create a new, full color, daily inspiration card. I encourage you to download and post it right where you will see it in the morning to uplift and inspire you each day. I love the card we created last year so much that this year’s design is very similar. The message is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/crpcattractclients.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-480" title="crpcattractclients" src="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/crpcattractclients.jpg" alt="" width="114" height="182" style="padding: 10px; border: 0" /></a>Every year I create a new, full color, daily inspiration card. I encourage you to download and post it right where you will see it in the morning to uplift and inspire you each day. I love the card we created last year so much that this year’s design is very similar. The message is new.</p>
<p>I wrote these words, keeping in mind that you would read them to yourself, to give yourself a boost and set yourself up for a great day. We can all do well to remind ourselves to be loud and proud, take a risk and express our appreciation.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><a href="http://attractclientswithease.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/crpcattractclients.pdf" target="_self">Download this card</a></span></strong> and let it serve as a reminder of how powerful you are and all that is possible for you with each day.</p>
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		<title>Make Your Business THRIVE in 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2010 09:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am so excited to announce I am being featured on an teleclass hosted by the eWomen Network!  Please join me on Tuesday, January 4th on an amazing session where you will learn: Embrace the smartest strategy that you can apply today to explode your revenue Discover how to stand out as an expert to more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so excited to announce I am being featured on an teleclass hosted by the eWomen Network!  Please join me on Tuesday, January 4th on an amazing session where you will learn:</p>
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<li>Embrace the smartest strategy that you can apply today to explode your revenue</li>
<li>Discover how to stand out as an expert to more easily attract clients</li>
<li>Cultivate a loyal, free sales force that will be on the lookout for new clients and opportunities for you</li>
<li>Recognize what might be right in front of you for more ways to serve your clients and new clients easily</li>
<li>Create a power results team that can double and triple your clients and revenue</li>
<li>Apply the business principle that will keep you operating in the black well into the future</li>
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<p>Click <a href="https://events.ewomennetwork.com/event/details.php?eid=14419" target="_self"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>here</strong></span></a> to register immediately.  This one is sure to sell out!</p>
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		<title>Living Without Regrets</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 19:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Caterina Rando</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s note: I just got a thank you from Madeline E. who thanked me for this article and the impact it had on her. I wrote this article in 1998. A little know secret is the woman I am talking about at the top of the article is my mom. Living Without Regrets In my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Editor&#8217;s note: I just got a thank you from Madeline E. who thanked me for this article and the impact it had on her. I wrote this article in 1998. A little know secret is the woman I am talking about at the top of the article is my mom.<br />
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Living Without Regrets</strong><br />
In my neighborhood there is a building that has a white awning with green lettering that reads &#8220;<em>No Regrets Apartments</em>.&#8221; An energetic, friendly and eccentric woman of a certain age owns the building. It is the theme by which she lives her life. She has lived in the same neighborhood all her life, yet she corresponds with friends all over the country and world. She never learned how to drive, yet gets around twice as much as people half her age. She sometimes skips lunch but a day never passes that she doesn&#8217;t enjoy some gourmet chocolate. For her whole life, even when dining in fancy restaurants, she always eats her dessert first. She is on the move, living by her own rules, always looking forward, never looking back.<br />
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</em></strong>When I walk by the building I am reminded of the importance of living without regrets. Every day, every moment, we have a choice to be fully who we want and dream to be, or to pretend that we are less magnificent than our true selves— to pretend we have few wants, few desires and few ideas for how we really want our lives to be. Have you chosen to reach for the stars while living a life full of possibilities and passion, or to do you keep holding on to the railing, passing time in the seat of the mundane, thinking about what might have been? <span id="more-463"></span></p>
<p>You are responsible for making sure you are served up a full helping of life. No one else can go to life&#8217;s buffet line for you. You won&#8217;t get what you want if you let anyone or anything else select your main course.</p>
<p><em>If you want a life with no regrets, you have to live each day with no regrets, to do that means you are living authentically. Authentic living means you are being true to yourself, paying attention to what you truly want and not letting fear, or what other people will think, stop you. This fulfilling lifestyle involves doing what you want to do, going where you want to go, being who you want to be. You know you are living and working without regrets when you are fully engaged, alert, alive, enthusiastic, and in action in your life.<br />
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When you are living your life authentically, problems are seen as possibilities; obstacles are seen as opportunities to learn and to do things differently. What would be different for you if you were truly living an authentic life? Would you go back to school and study ballroom dancing, Buddhism or beer brewing; travel through India on a bike; risk that romance with the new neighbor; start a new business?</p>
<p>The only obstacle between you and a life without any regrets is you.</p>
<p><em>Take the time. In the words of George Elliot,&#8221;It is never too late to be what you might have been.&#8221; </em>If you are ready for a new proactive lifestyle, where you will be more fulfilled  and squeeze more juice out of every day, read on:</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Strategies for Living Without Regrets</span></strong></p>
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<p><strong>1. Commit Yourself to Authentic Living<br />
</strong>Right now this is the only life you have. Make an agreement with yourself that you are not going to sit this one out. Commit to being a participant, not an observer. Commit yourself to the process of finding and following your dreams, wants and desires.<br />
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2. Point Out Past &#8220;Pro-Actions&#8221;<br />
</strong>Make a list of all the moments in your life when you felt most alive. Then identify what was it about each of those experiences that made you feel that way. For example, if you identified serving in the Peace Corp as a time of aliveness, identify if it was the adventure, the opportunity to educate others, to help shape a community, or learning about another culture, that was the real positive and invigorating part of the experience. Alternatively, if you felt proactive when you first used a computer, was it doing something new, achieving a goal or actually working with technology that made you feel great?<br />
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3. Tolerate Nothing<br />
</strong>Ask yourself, what are you tolerating in your life? Is there a health challenge you are not addressing, a relationship you have long outgrown, a home full of paraphernalia that is crowding you? If you are not being proactive in life and handling these things, you are tolerating and being reactive to them and how they impact you.</p>
<p><strong>4. Identify “No Regrets” People<br />
</strong>Make a list of ten people you are acquainted with that you believe live life fully and authentically. These are the people you want to spend time with, collaborate with, pioneer with, play with. Reach out to a few of them and make something happen.</p>
<p><strong>5. Jot it Out<br />
</strong>Keep a journal for a week and notice when you are feeling the most alive. Write these things down, and then at the end of the week reread your journal and see if there are any common threads or directions that need further investigation.</p>
<p><strong>6. Try New Things<br />
</strong>Make a list of all the things you would like to do. Add to the list everyday. Once a week, for six weeks, try something new. In addition to having new experiences and perhaps finding some new talents and passions, living without regrets means trying everything you want to try.</p>
<p><strong>7. Get Into Action<br />
</strong>Once you commit to proactive living—living without regrets—the only thing left to do is get moving, get working on it, get going. Write out all the big and small action items necessary to get you living your proactive lifestyle. Start small with little steps, and as momentum builds you will find yourself naturally engaging fully in life, naturally not holding back.</p>
<p>As you begin this new lifestyle, watch closely and notice what is different. Maybe soon you will place an awning or a plaque, or even a welcome mat by your front door that lets all who enter know: here lives a person with no regrets.</p>
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